Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Local News

This article was featured in our local newspaper today. Written by Holly Richrath. Praying it 1)brings glory to God and 2) encourages others to help some of the 147 million orphans in the world!
















Abby Kaufman said her adopted son, Misikir, 6, fits right in with his brother and sisters, but he does notice a difference between himself and his family.

“He’ll say, ‘I have brown skin and you have peach skin,’” Kaufman said. “We’re very open about it, and we teach him to embrace it and be proud of his background.”

Misikir is Ethiopian.

Kaufman said she and her husband, Jeff, who already had four children, Ava, 7, Layne, 6, Iris, 4, and Lucy, 2, knew they wanted a fifth. Their children were all under the age of 5 at the time.

“My husband said, ‘Why have another when there are so many children without parents?’” Kaufman said. “It sounds crazy adopting with four kids under the age of 5, but God just called us to do it.”

Bart Rinkenberger agreed.

“The bible is very clear about taking care of orphans,” he said.

Rinkenbeger and his wife, Janell, parents to four boys, Carson, 9, Quinn, 7, Kade, 4, and Cole, 3, also decided to adopt from Ethiopia.

Now 1-and-a-half-year-old Jada came home and met her big brothers Sept. 4.

Rinkenberger said adopting a child from Ethiopia was an easy choice for his family.

“The people there realize the need and realize Americans can help,” he said.

He said the country of about 82 million people has about six million orphans.

Janell Rinkenberger said she and her husband had never really considered adoption.

“God just spoke to our hearts,” she said.

She said she and her husband did not know much about adoption, but found that at the time, Ethiopia was a cost-efficient, well-running option for adoption.

The Kaufmans and the Rinkenbergers went through different agencies to adopt, but each family went through a similar process.

Kaufman said that process began with a home study, which she said involved “lots and lots of paperwork.”

The Kaufmans requested a boy between the ages of 2 and 4. They brought Misikir home in mid-January 2009.

“He’s the sweetest little boy, and we just can’t imagine our lives without him,” Kaufman said.

Kaufman said her children were very excited and accepting when Misikir became part of the family.

“He’s just their brother,” she said.

Kaufman said the family celebrates Misikir’s “Gotcha Date” each year. She said they have a party, just like they would for a birthday.

Janell Rinkenberger said her family began the adoption process in April 2008 with a home study. After the study was approved by the Department of Children and Family Services, they received their foster-care license.

After filling out additional paperwork, which was sent to Ethiopia, the Rinkenbergers were placed on a waiting list in August 2008.

On Feb. 10, 2009, they received pictures and a medical history of the 3-month-old girl they would eventually get to bring home.

After filling out more paperwork, the Rinkenbergers were given a court date where paperwork from the family and Jada would be reviewed in Ethiopia.

Janell Rinkenberger said that Jada legally became their daughter June 29, 2009.

After Jada passed a physical and her visa was issued, the Rinkenbergers travelled to Ethiopia and brought her home.

“Her brothers love her and treat her just like she’s their biological sister,” he said.

He said Jada is too young to understand the differences between herself and her family now, but the Rinkenbergers bought items from Ethiopia to give to her as she grows up.

“The American adoptive parents are very open with the kids about the situation,” Bart Rinkenberger said. “The heritage and their culture is very rich, and we try to honor that. The idea is to keep the curiosity alive.”

Bart Rinkenberger said he sees no challenges when it comes time for the children from Ethiopia to enter the predominately white Morton school district.

“These kids will totally fit in,” he said.

Every few months, Kaufman said, families of locally adopted children from Ethiopia get together so the kids can play. She said there are about 10 adopted Ethiopian children currently living in Morton.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Our little "Soul Sister"

and her proud big brother who wants to show this off back in Ethiopia. :)

Sunday, March 14, 2010

March is 6 months home!

Hard to believe, but this month marks 6 months Jada has been home. We've had fun getting to know her and love the way God made her. We think she's a perfect fit for our family.

Playing in the car last Sept...
.....and 6 months later.

Last Sept. she'd sit in the stroller while we worked in the yard.
And now....she's wants to move! She loves to go for walks but won't sit still for too long once we stop.
She loves sitting on the bike and moves her feet around to move over the sidewalk.
And she's walking everywhere! Although we need to practice with shoes on outside a little more. The uneven yard is a little harder than inside. :)
It's been so fun to get outside and play again! We've all been enjoying the fresh air and sunshine and warmer weather can't come soon enough.
Funny how 55 feels so warm in the spring and so cold in the fall. No shoes!
Cole kept asking for "hot dogs" on the swing. Otherwise known as "underdogs". :)
Brotherly love.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Random!

My blogging has become so sparse I'm not sure how to catch up. I just can't quite close it out though. So, here's another random post. No major events, just our life in pictures.

Loves to be held! Begging here. :) Fun with cousins. We love you guys.
Quinn helping out in a hurried moment. This guy has been so brave lately. Today was the first day of a big change for him. Can't wait to post pics of him in a few months.
Where we've been spending our Sat. afternoons the last two months.
Quinn's report. This was all his own and I thought it worthy of showing.
Spent the weekend at my parents. Cole getting the royal treatment.
Had so much fun getting to see my old college roomate again! Miss you Heth.
Cole and my nephew Noah. Such good budies. I love that they are close in age and have so much fun together.
My mom and Jada.
My sister in law and I sporting our Africa tees. So extcited to watch their adoption journey unfold.
My mom doing what she does best. SERVE. (not just food) :)
And my dad doing what he does so well, helping my mom. They are a great team.
Back home again. Cole is the biggest breakfast eater and dad makes a mean batch of German pancakes.
All curled up. My mother in law sewed some really cute little silkie blankies for Jada, but she likes the big fuzzy ones the best.
Dad getting a back rub.
Happy 35th Daddy!!!!
My sweet little girlie.
Playing and being ornery.
Haven't posted any pics of these two in quite a while. Zion just turned 2 in Dec.
And Fisher turned 2 in Jan. He loves getting his picture taken. :)
We feel so blessed that Jada will have cousins from Ethiopia on both sides of the family! God's plan is good although surprising. I never would have imagined my life playing out like this. :)
So, there you have it. Life in our house the past month. I'm excited for Spring! Had to change my blog background to something that seemed fresh and new. Loved the butterfly. I saw a picture that read something like this..."just when I thought my world was over, I turned into a beautiful butterfly". What a neat thing. If God can turn a small, slow, caterpillar into a beautiful butterfly that soars through the air, what more can He do with me.